Questions have been raised about the accusatory tone of the presentation of the Grey Ribbon Techniques. They are very much appreciated. They contribute significantly to the dialogue on the subject matter.
In essence, this contributor to the dialogue has acknowledged the tone of the presentation to be accusatory, and raises questions as follows:
The content within the five part sequence is very accusatory.
It is basically a message from the sender to the receiver accusing them of being guilty of everything detailed while the sender is being characterized as being completely innocent in any wrong doing regarding everything detailed.
If that is your intent then your five part sequence about grey ribbons is masterful. And probably somewhat therapeutic.
On the other hand, if the primary desire is to get the person to accept the grey ribbon method of social engagement, with the possibility of eventually being able to discuss the difficult topics that have been avoided, I think a more neutral approach might be worthwhile.
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